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[week 3] Dia: Talking to users

2025-07-28

Originally, I planned to write about the MVP.
But midway through, I realized something more important: talking to users.
I’d lost sight of that for a moment—this past week was about correcting course.

Here’s what I learned and what’s ahead.


🧠 Finding #1: Avoid the FFF Trap

I started with FFF: Friends, Family, and Fools.
That was a mistake.

The signal is too noisy. The feedback lacks depth or relevance.
Instead, I should be speaking with power users and early adopters—the productivity freaks.

These are the people who’ve tried every planning app, tweaked every method, and stress-tested countless systems.
They don’t just have opinions—they have pain. And that’s where insight lives.


🔥 Finding #2: Pain Is the North Star

I initially asked:

Are you planning your day already?

Some people don’t plan—and don’t want to. Others do—but feel no need to change.

Instead, I now ask:

Is planning painful for you?

Whether they plan or not doesn’t matter.
What matters is whether their current system frustrates them.
Now I ask: “On a scale of 1–5, how painful is your current planning process?”

Pain is the signal. Pain is the metric.


🤹‍♂️ The User vs. Product Dilemma

For Dia to succeed, I need to obsess equally over:

Building? I love.
Selling? I dread. (Like most of us.)

So when do I shift between them?
Or should I always be doing both?

I don’t have the perfect answer yet—but I’m exploring two approaches.


💡 Idea #1: Batching

  1. Talk to users until 9 join the waitlist
  2. Build the MVP
  3. Notify the list
  4. Fill 9 slots
  5. Work closely with those users
  6. Improve the product
  7. Repeat with the next batch—maybe 19 this time.

💡 Idea #2: Continuous Selling

Talking to users is hard.
It’s time-consuming. Emotionally taxing. Full of rejection.
But it’s essential.

So I’m experimenting with a micro-habit:

Talk to users first thing every morning. That’s it.

To make it sustainable, here’s how I’m approaching it:


🧪 Productivity Hack #1: Build Habits That Stick

  1. Keep it light
    As Paco Cantero said: motivation must stay high, stress must stay low.
    I’ll assign a short time block—no pressure.

  2. Timebox it
    Instead of “talk to 5 people,” I’ll commit to a fixed amount of time.
    As Dr. J.S. Virk pointed out: when success is tied to outcomes, inconsistency follows.
    Time is the only currency we all share—manage that instead.

  3. [Bonus] Anchor it
    I’ll pair the habit with something I already do—like after my morning meditation.


⏳ My Plan

My theory?
Undercommitting leads to overdelivery.
I’ll report back in a few weeks.


🧪 [Bonus] Productivity Hack #2: Half-Planning the Day

Besides documenting the Dia journey, I also want to share personal productivity tactics.

Here’s one I’ve started using:

Each morning, I log:

I also note my energy level (1–10).

Why?
To become more thoughtful about what truly shapes the day.


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🤔 What About You?

Have you tried batching? Or daily micro-habits for user outreach?
What worked? What didn’t?

I’d love to learn from your experience. Email me at (tomas@heydia.app).

Until next week—
Let’s keep building.
With users in mind.